Agnes Slotemaker (Estie)

Interview with Agnes
 Part I

Agnes is sitting in her room, receiving visitors. We knock on the door and walk on in. The Scrabble Board awaits any players. Sun through the window brightens the room. It is the day before Christmas, 2001. We exchange pleasantries for awhile. And then the interview begins...

Slotemaker Cousins: Are you in the mood to answer some questions?

Agnes: Sure. What do you want to know?

(We show Agnes the photo of the
 50th Wedding Anniversary Party)


Slotemaker Cousins: What can you tell us about this photo?

Agnes: I think I am the only one still living who is in this picture.

Slotemaker Cousins: What would you think of the idea of getting a new photo taken, with the descendants of the people in this photo?

Agnes: That's a neat idea...there's probably a lot of them right here in Lynden, and they don't even know each other.

( note from the cousins: Agnes has not, as yet, been told of the tentative plans to have a reunion on the 90th Anniversary of when the photo was taken )

Slotemaker Cousins: Tell us about your grandpa and grandma.

Agnes: When I started school I lived in town with grandma and grandpa for just a couple years, until Dick started school.

Slotemaker Cousins: What was your grandpa, Cornelis, like?

Agnes: I was scared of him. He was very strict.

Slotemaker Cousins: How about your grandma Aagje?

Agnes: Grandma was very sweet and gentle.

We ask Agnes to comment on the following event described in Henry Slotemaker's The Slotemaker Story (Part 5: Slotemaker Farm)---

"One bright September morning on our way to school we saw in the distance that a threshing machine – steam powered – was coming to meet us. Now this horse had a mortal fear of threshing machines and saw this monster coming, and indicated by his actions that he was not going to share the road with so formidable a contender. He promptly turned around and headed back for home. Neal managed to slow him down, and again head in the direction toward the machine. This time he headed off the road into the field. One of the men with the threshing machine, seeing our dilemma came to our help and held the horse until the threshing machine had passed, and we could again go merrily on our way."

Slotemaker Cousins: What do you remember about the threshing machine incident?

Agnes:  That it made us late for school.

Slotemaker Cousins: Why would that be what you remember?

Agnes: Because I remember that the teachers at school were mean and if you were late you had to knock on the door to the classroom and be let in by the teacher and had to explain why you were late. Sometimes the chores on the farm made us late for school. I dreaded being late.

Slotemaker Cousins: Did you get in more trouble than usual this time?

Agnes:  No. I just remember it so clearly. We were late because of the horse getting scared and when we finally got to school Neil went to his class, and I just stood outside my door, scared to knock. Henry saw me standing there and I told him I was scared to knock. I was very shy. So, Henry knocked on the door, real loud, and I started to cry when the teacher opened the door and the teacher said a few words to Henry. The teacher grabbed me and took me to my seat.

Slotemaker Cousins: How traumatic for you.

Agnes: It was terrible for teachers to treat kids that way. I was already embarrassed at being late. It just made it worse making you knock on the door and then treating you like that.

Slotemaker Cousins: We get the idea you remember your brother Henry quite fondly.

Agnes: Henry was nice and gentle.

Slotemaker Cousins: What was Cornelius like?

Agnes: Neil had a temper and was always getting in trouble. He was expelled from school a number of times. My dad (John Slotemaker) would have to talk to the school administration so they would let him come back to school. 

Slotemaker Cousins: What did he do to get kicked out of school?

Agnes: I don't know. But it happened more than just a couple times. Neil was very naughty.

Once more we ask Agnes to comment about something in the Slotemaker Story, this time from Part 1: Holland---
"...a cousin died leaving a wife and family. Grandpa and Grandma agreed to take care of one of the children, baby Ida, until such a time when the mother could again have her. When Grandpa and Grandma with daughter Anna, now 16 and Jan 10 were ready to board ship for America, little Ida, now 5 went along, the mother still hoping to have her back some time in the future. This never happened so for all practical purposes she was one of the family, she kept the name of Ida Muller."

Slotemaker Cousins: What became of Ida Muller?

Agnes: Ida Muller? Oh, yes, she became a DeVries.

Slotemaker Cousins: Okay, Ida Muller DeVries. In the Slotemaker Story Henry tells us that Ida was the daughter of a cousin who passed away who Cornelis and Aagje agreed to take care of until Ida's mother was once more able to take care of her. But that never happened and Ida came to America with the family.

Agnes: There's a DeVries that lives here, but I don't know if she's from that family. They aren't relation, so I don't know. I've never talked to her...

( note from the cousins: We have reason to believe there may be more to the story of Ida Muller and her possible relevance to the Slotemaker Story, past and present...)

Slotemaker Cousins: What can you tell us about your Aunt Anna, the sister of your dad, John Slotemaker?

Agnes: We didn't socialize much with our aunts and uncles and cousins when we were growing up even though we all lived here in the Lynden area, we just didn't do much with the relatives, except when it was something to do with grandpa and grandma, like the 50th Anniversary because we lived way out of town on the farm. I don't even know if Anna's family were farmers, or what they did.

This was Part I of the Interview with Agnes Slotemaker.
  Part II will continue with more information  

young Agnes photos
Agnes & her sister-in-law
Agnes at a party
Agnes & her mom & dad & siblings
Agnes Story by her Grand-daughter


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